A soulmate is someone who challenges you to be better, someone who can’t stand seeing you sad, someone who stays faithful, loyal and committed to you, someone who helps take care of you when you’re sick, someone who stands by your side through the good days and bad days, and someone who wants to grow old with you. I’m ultimately looking for my soulmate.
I think a perfect relationship happens when two imperfect people find each other and commit to helping each other on life’s journey as a couple in a resilient partnership with reciprocity. I’m here - imperfect yet educated, successful, empty-nested mature gentleman, and I continue to grow and learn. I’m trying and have the courage to be a vulnerable partner and I hope you do to. That starts by loving oneself despite making mistakes - and that’s ok as long as we own it and trust each other to share missteps without judgement. In fact, I think sharing mistakes creates a foundation for a genuine relationship that will stand the test of time through life struggles.
Personality wise I'm an ISTJ—an independent achiever who gives. I am empathic, appreciative, driven, self-motivated, honest, genuine, caring, loyal, dedicated, dependable, trustworthy, affectionate and committed to family. For balance, I match best with another empathic, honest, emotionally-aware, intelligent and appreciative woman—a soul with integrity who cares for others and loves herself first. I like to serve, cook & host, care for others, warm by a fire, open doors, serve breakfast-in-bed, and bring love flowers often. I have energy, a responsible 800ish credit score and time to enjoy life. I want love, touch, respect and words of affirmation. I give all love languages and I’m hyper-attentive to my partners needs.
Career wise, I'm an executive product manager professional in high-tech, surrounded by a large well-connected global network. My job is to empathize with customers & partners, understand their business problems and then build products/solutions to help them solve or fix. I'm well suited & fit for my work which I'm passionate about. I read non-fiction and articles to stay current, rarely escaping with novels or fiction. I write, speak and present and I’m a respected member of my professional community.
I've travelled most of the world, studied post-graduate school in London and travel internationally for work. I have a background in Anthropology and Geographic Information Science, seasoned in Liberal Arts, Philosophy and Photography. I'm in to win it, and I’m happiest in an energetic work-hard/play-hard equilibrium space to pursue responsible & accountable fun, laughter, food & wine, global travel, romance and physical & emotional intimacy with well-earned dignified work.
I want my one-and-only Love—an energetic woman with an independent intelligent mind who wants & appreciates a real deal gentleman and offers similar integrity, respect, love and appreciation. A woman who wants to continuously explore stimulating life with fit outcomes with futures. I want us to communicate well, assertively, and share adventurous spirit for good healthy fun and work. Exercise, outdoor active pursuits, adventure, exploration, and red rocking discoveries are Colorado natives, but lets also enjoy the night—and explore fine food & wine—party responsibly, and get sexy for a well-dressed swanky dinner out. Let’s share time, socialize, travel globally, laugh, create fam-friends-n’furry memories and co-create the best journey while our universe introduces new magical discoveries. I know you’re out there, and I’m ready with my arms and doors wide open to start an intentional & meaningful life together.